3 Tips on Becoming a Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man
A multi-orgasmic man separates ejaculation from orgasm during lovemaking. He can continue making love for hours, having multiple orgasms. Do you think this ability would increase your pleasure and your partner’s pleasure? The average sex act lasts approximately 7.5 minutes from the time of penetration to ejaculation. Let’s face it… statistics or averages don’t speak to everyone’s experience. You can be sure, though, that there are times when your partner is left wanting more and you are exhausted and ready to sleep. If one of you did not orgasm, it was bad sex not love making.
Many men watch porn and think that is what good sex is about. Porn is merely a choreographed and filmed sex act, not reality. The Pillars of Tantra are Movement, Meditation, Pleasure and Connection. Using all four will bring you to a peak of pleasure that you have never experienced before. Tantra allows a connection and a vibrancy with your partner that filters into your daily lives. Whether you choose marriage or not, it can be the best sex of your life.
At the point of ejaculation, most men speed up and contract all their pelvic muscles. In Tantra we cultivate “Relaxed, Present Awareness with Focus”. We teach specific exercises that strengthen the pelvic floor and allow you to stay relaxed at the peak of pleasure. This creates an environment where you have more control over whether or not you will ejaculate.
To practice Tantra, it is imperative that you become aware of the scale at which your pleasure peaks. To achieve success with any of the holds or blocks that prevent ejaculation, you need to begin before you reach a 7 or an 8. (10 being ejaculation) This is a skill that takes time to master. The resulting orgasms will be worth the effort. The short sneeze of an orgasm that comes with ejaculation cannot compare to the continuous full-body, waves of bliss that come with being a skilled Tantric male.
Solo orgasmic awareness practices allow mastery of the holds and blocks before you practice Tantra with your partner. The confidence that you will attain in your ability to please your lover, will make the experience that much better for both of you.
In addition, as a multi-orgasmic man you will have plenty of energy the next day. Tantric masters state that men who ejaculate more than every 8 days are in a continuous state of depletion. By preventing ejaculation, you save precious energy for other things and those vital essences are absorbed back into the body.
Focus at the Height of Ejaculation
In traditional lovemaking, at the point of ejaculation your whole focus is on your genitals and that brief, moment of pleasure. Your partner might well not exist in that moment. Master Tantric semen retention and you will be able to continue receiving and giving pleasure for many hours.