Why the Multi-Orgasmic Man is Extraordinary
Extraordinary describes the multi-orgasmic man. He stands head and shoulders above other lovers. Learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation allows him to continue making love long after orgasm. Traditionally, most men, upon ejaculation are finished, whether or not their partner is. In Tantra, the goal is to be present, relaxed and aware with focus. By retaining semen, the multi orgasmic man can continue to orgasm many times, over many hours, however, that is not the only benefit.
When you consider that the average time from penetration to ejaculation is 2 to 7 minutes, it is easy to understand why so many people complain about the intimacy in their relationships. At the moment of ejaculation, all attention is riveted on the genitals. Most men are unaware of anything else but this neurological / physiological process. His partner might as well not exist and at that point, lovemaking is finished for him. Most women require 20 to 40 minutes for their genitals to become fully engorged and if enough time is not available for her, she will not orgasm. Recently, one young woman confided in me that when she was in her twenties that she didn’t think women had orgasms. With a multi-orgasmic man, there is always plenty of time for a woman to reach that peak state and be fully satisfied.
There is No Recovery Time
By conserving energy, a man can continue to make love and to orgasm multiple times. Creating semen, that precious fluid that creates new life, takes a tremendous amount of energy. Tantric teachings state that if you ejaculate more than once every eight days, you are in a constant state of depletion. You’ve heard of coaches saying to their players that there is to be no sex before playing and the energy required is best saved for the big game. While this is not true in all cases, (sex occuring 2 hours before the game would affect performance) tantric men report feeling more energized after lovemaking and not exhausted as they would before they began their semen retention practice.
Orgasms Boost the Immune System
“Sexual arousal and orgasm increased the absolute number of leukocytes, in particular natural killer cells (CD3-CD16+CD56+), in the peripheral blood.
“These findings demonstrate that components of the innate immune system are activated by sexual arousal and orgasm.”
Effects of sexual arousal on lymphocyte subset circulation and cytokine production in man. Haake P1, Krueger TH, Goebel MU, Heberling KM, Hartmann U, Schedlowski M.
Better Mental Clarity
Taoist masters state that one non-ejaculatory orgasm increases mental clarity 2x and that if you have 10 non-ejaculatory orgasms, you will see God. This seems farfetched to a non-practicing male, but experience is the best confirmation. A Tantric male experiences multiple waves of orgasm and energy flow that consume the whole body rather than the short lived sneeze of the traditional ejaculatory orgasm.
Surprising Results are Cumulative
Becoming multi-orgasmic takes time and training, and skill increases over time. Through this practice there are specific techniques that increase profound connection between partners that filters into their everyday lives. Many people are attracted to Tantra because they believe that the sutras will increase their enjoyment of sex. (Sting’s comment about 9-hour lovemaking sessions may have stimulated that interest.) Surprisingly though, they discover an unexpected spiritual component as well. They are more interested in their partner’s pleasure and when both partners come together in that manner the results are electrifying.